mardi 3 mai 2016

Ultimate Guide On How To Stop Bullying

By Cynthia Kennedy


Some parent and guardians often have the wrong information about maltreatment. Majority of them tend to think that this is an act that only happens in movies and other drama series. However, this act is being witnessed all over the world mostly in school children. However, in extreme cases, these children bullies grow up to be actual bullies in the society or rather community they live in. Sporting out such kind of people can be a bit had especially if you are not within the inner circle. This artifact has provided information on how to stop bullying in schools.

Being attentive to every minor and major details is important. Considering the fact that bullying might be happening but no one notices, you need to be extremely keen. While still paying attention, consider small things like the change in the behavior of a person and also change in their eating habits. Most probably, a child being bullied tend to exhibit such and more behaviors.

More so, any situation that happens that might seem like harassment should not be ignored by all means. At times, a teacher or even a parent may tend to ignore some things that may affect their children negatively. A teacher may happen to take a joke lightly but the same joke may have a devastating effect to the other student. Therefore, try as much as you can to avoid ignorance if you at all want to prevent child harassment.

Whatever position you occupy in the society, whether you are a teacher or a parent to a bully or the victim, it is your responsibility to see to it that you do something to prevent or stop this act. If you suspect there is anything suspicious going on with a couple of students, you have to intervene least you give the bully a chance to harass and even injure their victim. This should include any kind of behavior that gives a green light of student harassment.

Where you witness an act of bullying, it is advised that you approach the matter in a calm way. Try not to argue or rather burst out on the students since that may trigger further argument between them. However, remember to keep them separate from each other before you proceed with the dialogue. Later, let both the students and the people who had gathered around know that everything is alright. This will reduce anxiety.

Since you have a certain authority over the bully and his victim, you are in a position to deal with each of them as individuals. It is not okay to try solve the case while in the presence of other people who have gathered to witness what happened. Ensure you have cleared the entire room until you are left with only the involved individuals. This way, each party will be comfortable telling sides of their stories without any worried.

After you have intervened and talked to both the bully and the victim, go ahead and invite a specialist over. This specialist should talk and guide these students. Hiring one is more important than handling the entire task by yourself since you are not equipped with the required skills.

Moreover, you may decide to undertake training to understand techniques on different ways of dealing with bullies. Locate one of the best institutions where you will undertake the course. You can also train yourself without undertaking the lessons. This is possible through reading of books while carrying out further research through the internet.




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